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The Heart-Healing Power of Self-Care

We all experience stress in one way or another, and while short-term stress poses minimal risk to our health, chronic stress impacts our hearts more than you might think.

Prolonged stress is linked to high blood pressure, which significantly increases the risk of coronary artery disease, heart attack, and heart failure. Beyond just the physical toll, stress impacts emotional health by affecting your thoughts, actions, and feelings. This may cause you to feel frustration, fatigue, or have difficulty focusing, potentially impacting your work performance.

Learning to manage and lower your stress through self-care practices is one way to live a heart-healthy lifestyle. Self-care means taking the time to do things just for you to improve both your physical health and mental well-being. Even small acts of self-care in your daily life can have a big impact.

Love your heart by loving yourself! Below are some tips for embracing self-care to reduce stress and lower your blood pressure.

Make Time for Yourself

Self-care can help you manage stress, lower your risk of illness, and increase your energy. Not sure where to start on your self-care journey? Download this FREE self-care toolkit! Included are an assessment to help you identify your current self-care routine, an action plan for you to start implementing more self-care in your life, and a self-care bingo game to challenge yourself to try new self-care activities.

Daily Challenge: Elevate Your Day with Breathwork!

Take a moment today to practice mindful breathing. Inhale deeply for a count of four, hold for four, and exhale for four. Want to practice more mindful breathing? Check out our full video for a calming and invigorating breathwork session with our VRC Care Navigator, Michelle McNiff.

Get a Good Night’s Sleep

Your well-being isn’t limited to daylight hours alone.

It’s recommended that adults get at least seven or more hours of sleep per day. A 2023 study conducted by researchers at the University of Arizona found that even just a few poor nights of sleep could cause a sudden spike in blood pressure. Taking steps to achieve quality sleep can notably decrease your vulnerability to obesity, heart and kidney disease, diabetes, and even stroke.

Do your worries or what you need to do the next day keep you awake at night? Before bedtime write down the most pressing worries of the day. Also, make a to-do list for the next day and prioritize the top 2-3 items. This way you can file your worries and priorities away for the next day, so they don’t take up any mental bandwidth in your mind at night. For more tips on how to set yourself up for a good night’s sleep, read this blog!

Set Boundaries

Setting boundaries is an act of self-love. By establishing your limits, you not only safeguard your well-being but also communicate your values, beliefs, and priorities to others. It demonstrates that you deserve to be treated well and ensures supportive and respectful relationships.

But while everyone can have boundaries, the hard part is enforcing them. Here are some tips:

  1. Listen to your gut. If something doesn’t feel right, say or do something about it.
  2. Think realistically. Ask yourself if you’re asking for too much, or if the person is truly capable of making this change.
  3. Set the bottom line and hold it. Be clear when communicating your limits, and be strong in enforcing them.
  4. Let others set boundaries, too. When you communicate your limits, respect the person’s point of view, resist the temptation to get defensive, and consider what they need from you.
  5. Anticipate change. Setting boundaries can alter your relationship, so be prepared and offer the person time and space to process this new way of interacting.
  6. Ask someone else to hold you accountable. Holding the line can be difficult, so find someone to back you up and keep you in check.

Want Help Setting Boundaries?

As a VEBA member, you have access to Optum Dedicated Consultants through the VEBA Resource Center. This Optum partnership allows you to receive assistance quickly for a variety of issues — from stress and relationship issues to communication strategies and beyond. This is a no-cost service to VEBA beneficiaries only.

Appointments are available:

  • In-person at the VRC – Kearny Mesa location
  • Virtually by phone or video consultation

To schedule a consultation, click here.

Through Optum, you and your dependents can also schedule consultations through Emotional Wellbeing Solutions. Please note: you may experience longer wait times with this option. To schedule an appointment through Optum directly, call 888-625-4809 or visit liveandworkwell.com (Access Code: VEBA).

Thank you to our content partners at Sharp HealthCare and Healthwise.

5 Tips for Managing Blood Pressure at Home

There’s a good reason why every doctor’s appointment starts with a blood pressure check: Blood pressure is an important indicator of heart health.

According to the American Heart Association, nearly half of American adults have high blood pressure, when the force of blood flowing through their blood vessels is consistently too high. When left untreated, high blood pressure can lead to heart attack, stroke, and other health concerns.

However, with proper treatment and management, you can control your blood pressure to help you live a long and healthy life. Here are five ways everyone, especially those with high blood pressure, can keep their blood pressure in check:

1. Monitor your blood pressure on a regular basis.

If you don’t have a blood pressure monitor at home, that’s okay! It’s important to schedule your routine check-ups with your physician or doctor in combination with these healthy heart lifestyle tips. If you do have a blood pressure monitor at home, you should check your numbers daily with these tips:

  • Be still. Avoid smoking, caffeine, or exercise 30 minutes before measuring. Take at least five to 10 minutes of quiet rest before measurements.
  • Sit correctly. Sit with your back straight on a chair, feet flat on the floor, legs uncrossed, and support your arm on a flat surface at heart level.
  • Roll up your sleeves. Always be sure to put the cuff on a bare arm and not over clothing.
  • Be consistent. Take your blood pressure reading at the same time every day.
  • Record your results. Track your numbers using a printable or online tracker.

Dr. Todd Hitchcock, a cardiologist from ScrippsClinic, shares additional tips and techniques for checking your own blood pressure.

2. Know your risk.

A normal blood pressure reading is less than 120/80. If your first reading is 140/90 or greater, do the following:

  • Take your blood pressure again, two to three more times. Write down and compare all the readings, and if you are concerned about your numbers, consult with your doctor.
  • If your blood pressure exceeds 180/120, wait five minutes and test again. If your readings are still unusually high, contact your doctor immediately. You could be experiencing a medical emergency.
  • If your blood pressure is higher than 180/120 and you are experiencing chest pain, shortness of breath, back pain, numbness, weakness, change in vision, or difficulty speaking, call 911 immediately.

3. Take your prescribed medications.

Always take blood pressure medicines as prescribed. Never skip a dose or abruptly stop taking medicines.

4. Form healthy habits.

Whether you’re dealing with high blood pressure or concerned about your heart health, embracing an active lifestyle and adopting a heart-healthy, well-balanced diet with minimal salt can make a significant difference. Try including nutrient-rich foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins such as skinless poultry and fish, along with nuts and legumes into your daily meals. Regular aerobic activity, such as walking, bicycling, or swimming, can also help lower your blood pressure and strengthen your heart.

5. Manage stress.

Did you know untreated stress can increase blood pressure? Taking steps to reduce your stress can improve your heart health. Some stress-reducing tips include meditating, listening to music, trying aromatherapy, and taking a nap.

For more self-care tips to help you manage stress, download our free self-care toolkit.

The VEBA Resource Center offers many free virtual and in-person classes, from cooking and meditation to cardio and yoga. Check out our calendar to sign up for an upcoming class.